Welcome fellow Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families. Please feel free to post your comments. ACA is an umbrella term covering ALL who have suffered from childhood neglect, trauma and abuse.
"sycophants"I am going to have to look that one up but I think I get the idea for now.In my recovery I was searching old youtube videos etc...to help jar some feeling from my childhood. The old song MJ did called Ben and the movie Ben had come out when I was abouit 10 yeras old. Anyway although MJ did appear abit odd to me at times his music and life effected mine alot.I also liked the Jackson family cartoons whenI was young...probably one of the first cartoons that involved Afro americans...living around a large inner city area I had been glad to see cartoons become diverse including people I was actually living around.I can't remember if the Jackson Family came out before Fat Albert I don't know but I thought they were more cool that than alot of the others.Yes...another Hollywood tragety to hopefully add to education of others in hope he did not die in vain..sort of thing...not to sound cold...surely he was an ACA.They knw so much more about genetics and learned behavior,pschology etc...even though some a grown up dot hey really have a choice...as alcoholism they are now saying it is 60% genetic, 40% learned behavior. I also found an article talking abouta PTSD gene related to childhood abuse etc...I suspect may be the same 60/40.The victim become the perp...it appear to me the odds are actually more than 50/50. Do they really have a choice...our overall dysfunctional and "SHAMING" society had a lot to learn.Progree not perfectionSparky
I am going to have to learn to use the spell check one day. LOL
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"sycophants"
I am going to have to look that one up but I think I get the idea for now.
In my recovery I was searching old youtube videos etc...to help jar some feeling from my childhood. The old song MJ did called Ben and the movie Ben had come out when I was abouit 10 yeras old.
Anyway although MJ did appear abit odd to me at times his music and life effected mine alot.
I also liked the Jackson family cartoons whenI was young...probably one of the first cartoons that involved Afro americans...living around a large inner city area I had been glad to see cartoons become diverse including people I was actually living around.
I can't remember if the Jackson Family came out before Fat Albert I don't know but I thought they were more cool that than alot of the others.
Yes...another Hollywood tragety to hopefully add to education of others in hope he did not die in vain..sort of thing...not to sound cold...surely he was an ACA.
They knw so much more about genetics and learned behavior,pschology etc...even though some a grown up dot hey really have a choice...as alcoholism they are now saying it is 60% genetic, 40% learned behavior.
I also found an article talking abouta PTSD gene related to childhood abuse etc...I suspect may be the same 60/40.
The victim become the perp...it appear to me the odds are actually more than 50/50. Do they really have a choice...our overall dysfunctional and "SHAMING" society had a lot to learn.
Progree not perfection
Sparky
I am going to have to learn to use the spell check one day. LOL
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